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By now, most people have heard the term, “Helicopter Parents”. You know, the Boomer parents of the Millennial (aka: Gen Y) Generation who have hovered over their kids since birth, guiding them through childhood, into college…and now following their “adult” children into the professional workforce.
What??? You weren’t aware of how prevalent this hyper-parenting phenomenon truly was? Oh, trust me, it’s a BIG deal (and issue) for many Bosses and companies. Some companies are even starting to add “do’s and don’ts” policies in Employee Handbooks for the PARENTS! I’ll explain why in a bit.
And, just to be clear, I’m referring to employees who are in their 20’s, in corporate environments; not parents calling work on behalf of their teenager who has a summer job at the local mall.
Let me put this into perspective from my own first-hand experience: In my SEVEN YEARS of being a keynote speaker and conducting workshops for companies about how to better recruit, manage and retain Millennial talent, I’ve yet to ask this question and NOT get a hand raised: “Who here has heard from the parent of one of your Millennial employees?”
EVEN if it’s a small private session for a corporate Management Team (versus an audience of 500+), I always get at least 1-2 hands raised. Always.
This recently happened again at a presentation I conducted for Executives at an annual automotive industry conference last week. Six attendees out of 75+ raised their hands when I asked that question, and (as usual) I asked one of them to share why the parent called. I’ll share that story in a moment, so please keep reading.
The reason I always ask at least one person to share “why” the parent called is not only because I find it fascinating, but the answers always result in an outburst of laughter, mixed with shock & disbelief, from my audiences. Plus, I also ask why so that other attendees who (may) think “there’s no way parents call”, quickly realize I’m not making this stuff up.
Based on this new phenomenon in today’s modern workforce, I decided it was time to share some of these stories to illustrate how common this is. I’ve got hundreds of these real-world stories, but here are five. Each of them was shared at different speaking engagements I’ve conducted; all from different industries, located in different regions, and of different sizes, throughout the U.S. and Canada.
IMPORTANT: In the countless stories I’ve heard, sometimes the Millennial employees were aware their parents were calling, and sometimes not. So I do NOT want to imply the Millennials always ask their parents to do these things. Oftentimes, the Helicopter Parents do it on their own, and I’ve spoken to many Millennials who said they were mortified when they found out.
TRUE TALE #1: The Sr. Vice President mentioned previously at the recent automotive conference shared that she received a call from the father of one of her (26 years-old) Millennial employees. Dad called her to say he didn’t think his daughter’s private parking spot was located in a safe place for women so he requested that she be given a different one.
TRUE TALE #2: The CEO of a medium-sized company shared that he wanted to hold-off on promoting one of his Millennial employees because the employee (24 years-old) simply needed about six more months of training and on-the-ground experience. The next day the employee arrived at work with her Mom. They requested to see the CEO immediately and he obliged. Once in his office, Mom proceeded to pull out a long list that she and her husband had created the night before which outlined all the reasons why THEY thought their daughter WAS qualified to receive the promotion now…not in six months.
TRUE TALE #3: This does not pertain to someone’s “current” Millennial employee, but it’s another good example. The Sr. Director of HR at a Fortune 500 company attended my presentation for their Executive Team. Three days later she sent me an email to share that that morning she received a phone call from the Mom of a college senior. The Mom called her to inquire about internships the company had that her daughter could apply for. Mom explained she was calling companies on behalf of her daughter because her daughter was too busy at school studying for finals and being on the school’s swim team.
TRUE TALE #4: The Marketing Manager at a Fortune 1000 company shared at one of my presentations that a Dad called him, very upset. Dad said that his son (25 years-old) didn’t feel like he got enough time to share his ideas at the weekly department meetings. Dad asked the Manager to either make the weekly meeting longer OR call on his son more often.
TRUE TALE #5: The Director of Learning and Development at a large company had this to share with me and the audience: He had just hired a new Millennial employee (26 years-old) and during the on-boarding process the Millennial was given the standard Employee Benefits Package to review. Apparently, the Millennial had her parents review it because the next day Mom called her daughter’s new Boss to say that she (Mom), and Dad, had some questions about the benefits information.
I’m sharing these examples because, aside from being somewhat humorous, this topic is important for employers to be aware of. Why? Because if someone at work receives a call from a Helicopter Parent inquiring about things like promotions and raises their adult child didn’t get, and the Manager (caught off guard) engages in a conversation with the parent, it could cause serious legal issues for that Manager AND the employer.
The bottom line is that Bosses cannot discuss sensitive matters about employees (who are over 18 years- old) with the employee’s parents. Therefore, as an expert on Millennials and generational dynamics, I strongly suggest that this info quickly be shared with your Management and Leadership Teams.
By 2025, 75% of the workforce will be Millennials. That means the number of Helicopter Parents calling employers is only going to increase!
I Spoke at the "Across the Generations" Conference With Keynotes, Cokie Roberts & Madeleine Albright!April 30th, 2008
Yesterday I was a featured session speaker at the 19th Annual PBWC (Professional Businesswomen of California) Conference, and Cokie Roberts and Madeleine Albright were the keynotes. The theme for this year’s event was “Across the Generations”, so having me there was a good fit.
It was a full-day event at The Moscone Center in San Francisco with over 6,000 professional woman attendees! They ranged from Millennials just entering the workforce, to business owners, to Senior VP’s of corporations like Chevron, Deliotte, Wells Fargo, HP, Cisco, State Farm, and on & on.
I got a pic with Cokie (above) in the Speaker Lounge. She’s very cool (and really funny). And I also got one with Cokie and Secretary Albright but that was on someone else’s camera which I’ll get a copy of soon.
I co-presented a seminar session with Dr. Nanette Gartrell, author of “My Answer is No…If That’s Okay With You”. She has been on Fox News, Good Morning America and many other shows recently doing her press tour for the book. Our topic was on “effectively communicating across the generations” and I spoke about how to effectively manage, motivate and retain the Millennials.
Our session was a big success and we had over 800 people attend! It was lots of fun and we both signed books afterwards (that’s me signing and chatting above) and fielded lots of questions.
Then today I was back in SF presenting a session at the NCHRA Conference (Northern California HR Association). They created a full-day event on “Meet the Millennials”. Lots of interest in Millennials these days (as you know)! I spoke about unique ways to attract and recruit them to an audience of about 125 HR executives.
So, I haven’t had much time to write in my blog the past couple of days.Â
Overall they were both great events and I met a lot of amazing people. Next week I’ll actually be on vacation…this has been a long time coming and is MUCH needed!
I’ll write more on things I learned, taught, and saw when my vision isn’t so blurry. Time to sleep!